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Agreeing and disagreeing politely in English: vocabulary, dialogue and typical phrases

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Question of the day

In the intro, what is a good thing to do before sharing a different opinion?

  1. Acknowledge the other person's view
  2. Explain an alternative immediately
  3. Ask the chair to summarise
Show the answer – Open the answer to the question of the day

Correct answer: Acknowledge the other person's view

You can find the answer in the English introduction.

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Transcript

Hi, I'm Theo, and this is a two-minute conversation starter. Today: agreeing and disagreeing politely at work. When you work in a team, you won't always have the same ideas. Sometimes you completely agree – Jump to the vocabulary entry for completely agree with a colleague. But what happens when you disagree with someone – Jump to the vocabulary entry for disagree with someone? If you say 'That is a bad idea', you might offend someone – Jump to the vocabulary entry for offend someone. It is usually better to respect their point of view – Jump to the vocabulary entry for point of view first. You can say 'I see what you mean, but I have another idea.' This shows you are listening. Then, you can suggest an alternative – Jump to the vocabulary entry for suggest an alternative or try to find a compromise – Jump to the vocabulary entry for find a compromise. Good communication keeps the team happy. Think about your last meeting. How do you usually handle different opinions?

Vocabulary

completely agree/kəmˈpliːt.li əˈɡriː/
Meaning: To have exactly the same opinion as someone else.
Example: I completely agree with your plan for the new project.
disagree with someone/ˌdɪsəˈɡriː wɪð ˈsʌmwʌn/
Meaning: To have a different opinion.
Example: It is normal to disagree with someone in a team meeting.
offend someone/əˈfend ˈsʌmwʌn/
Meaning: To make someone feel upset or angry by saying something rude.
Example: Please be careful not to offend someone when giving feedback.
point of view/ˌpɔɪnt əv ˈvjuː/
Meaning: A way of looking at or thinking about a situation.
Example: From my point of view, we need more time to finish this.
suggest an alternative/səˈdʒest ən ɒlˈtɜː.nə.tɪv/
Meaning: To offer a different plan or idea.
Example: If the software is difficult to use, we must suggest an alternative.
find a compromise/faɪnd ə ˈkɒm.prə.maɪz/
Meaning: To reach an agreement where both sides give up something.
Example: We want different things, but I am sure we can find a compromise.

Dialogue

  1. AnnaWe should move the deadline to next Friday.
  2. MarkI see your point of view, but the client needs it on Wednesday.
  3. AnnaIf we rush, we might make mistakes.
  4. MarkI don't want to offend anyone, but I disagree. We can work a bit faster.
  5. AnnaQuality is more important than speed. We need to find a compromise.
  6. MarkTrue. Could we suggest an alternative to the client?
  7. AnnaMaybe we can deliver the first part on Wednesday, and the rest on Friday.
  8. MarkI completely agree. That sounds like a great plan.

Questions for your conversation

Partner A

Easier: Do you usually agree with your colleagues? Why or why not?

How do you say "That won't work" without offending anyone?

More challenging: In what situations is it better to avoid a compromise and stand your ground?

Partner B

Easier: Is it easy for you to say no to a manager? Why or why not?

How do people in your company usually handle disagreements?

More challenging: How might cultural differences affect the way we agree or disagree in international teams?

Partner A

Easier: Do you like discussing different ideas at work? Why or why not?

What phrases do you use to show you understand someone's point of view?

More challenging: How would you handle a situation where a colleague completely ignores your alternative suggestions?

Useful phrases

  • I see what you mean, but we don't have enough time.
  • I completely agree with you.
  • I'm afraid I disagree.
  • Could we find a compromise?
  • That's a very good point.
  • Let's suggest an alternative.

Topic quiz

Five quick questions check vocabulary and listening comprehension.

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